my girlfriend and i are preparing ourselves to try and get back into the whole “long distance” thing and we’re looking up alternatives to skype since it seems to give us problems more often than not. what do you guys use for video chats and what not?
No matter what you do in life, you’ll get criticized by someone at some point. This is especially true when you make moves towards changing your life. The quicker you realize that criticism is inevitable, accept it, and stop taking everything personal—the quicker you can breathe a sigh of relief.
Do you ever not think about Mali? And Mali- Do you ever not think about Hope? Just A question, not trying 2 be mean, but just askin, by the way i think u 2 make the CUTEST couple ever!
why would i ever not think about her? she’s all i want to think about. and she laughed at this question when i showed it to her, so i guess you can assume her response as well. we’re happily in love, what else should we be thinking about? :P
Why do you have your own name tattooed on your back? lol
it doesn’t have to do with the fact that it’s my name. far from it. when i visited my ex girlfriend’s house while i was there for her funeral, i found a drawing in her room. it was of an eagle with a ribbon across it and on part of it, was what’s tattooed on my back. i never knew she even drew it, that was my first time ever seeing it. i wanted a tattoo in her memory, but i wasn’t sure that i wanted her name on me or something like that. it just kind of made sense to me to use what she drew as my tattoo… not merely because it says my name.
first off i wanted to say you and your gf are adorable! second of all i feel your pain when it comes to the distance thing. im in the us army and ive been stationed in japan for about a yr now while my girlfriend lives in california. it hasnt been easy but just skimming through your videos it gives me a little hope (: no pun intended. just wanted to say thanks and best of luck to both of you!
damn that must be rough. thank you though, best of luck to you both!
Make another video with your girlfriend? you guys are amazingly adorable and a true inspiration.
we are making one for the weeklies tomorrow… and i’m sure before i leave we’ll make some more. i have a few that need editing and stuff before i decide to upload them but… don’t worry, there’s plenty :)
i cry i my eyes out every time i watch the video of you and your girlfriend. (the one with over 1000 notes) it reminds me of my relationship with me and ex and how i could have had that with her (but my parents got involved) you and your girlfriend are so inspirational , im crying as i write this, but i just wanted to thank you both for proving that things can work
aw i’m so sorry for making you cry. i hope the tears stop soon. <3 and thank you.
so hope, what's up? How are ya?? How's Mali? How's everything? How's everyone?
How am i you ask?
FULL OF BOREDOM
oh hey anon, not much. i’m good. so is mali. just enjoying the little time we have left together while i’m still here. other than that, things are great. we’re madly in love. that’s all that matters, right?
What are yours and Mali's long term plans? I really hope you 2 are able to be together permanently soon!
you have no idea how badly we want that. but right now, we are at a standstill and aren’t sure which direction to take. i’m still in college for the next two years, without any idea of what i want to do afterwards. and she’s trying to figure out what she wants as well. it’s a huge commitment for one of us to make the big move to one another, especially considering the difficulties with visas and what not.
“The realm of consciousness is much vaster than thought can grasp. When you no longer believe everything you think, you step out of thought and see clearly that the thinker is not who you are”—Eckhart Tolle (via mymindcravesnectar)
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